Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Who gives the toast at the reception?
A: The best man is the first to give a toast. The maid of honor and other members of the bridal party may also propose a toast.

Q: Should the bride and groom sit or stand when being toasted?
A: When the bride and groom are being toasted they should remain seated. They do not drink a toast to themselves.

Q: Should I invest in wedding insurance?
A: If you are concerned about something happening to spoil your day, perhaps you should seek the services of an insurance company. Wedsafe, a company that specializes in wedding insurance, can give you more information.

Q: Do I have to throw the garter and toss the bouquet?
A: While these two traditions are common, many brides and grooms are opting not to do these. Instead, many are doing more creative things, such as giving the bouquet to the couple who has been married the longest, or to the person who has traveled the farthest.

Q: If I am attending a wedding, is it all right to just take the gift with me?
A: While some persons prefer to take the gift with them, it is proper to send it. Most stores will send it for you. Just think how relaxed you'll be not having to carry it.

Q: This my second marriage. Is it proper to register for gifts?
A: If you didn't have a wedding the first time, or it took place years ago, you can register if you desire. However, most second-time brides will forgo the registering. There is no hard and fast rule on this matter.

Q: Can I have a flower girl and not have a ring bearer in my wedding?
A: Of course you can! I would suggest that you choose a child who is old enough or mature enough. That's usually one five or six years old.

Q: Can I send a pre-printed thank you card to my guests, or do I have to write a personal note?
A: You must write a personal note. This is not asking too much, in as much as your guest thought enough to send you a gift.

Q: I noticed you have the title Master Bridal Consultant™ and are a member of the Association of Bridal Consultants. What does that mean to me?
A: The designation of Master Bridal Consultant™ is the highest level that can be achieved. It is awarded to ABC members who successfully complete an educational course and then over the next six years complete proficiency exams, participate in seminars, provide references, and contribute to advancing the professionalism of the wedding business. In addition, Master Bridal Consultants are required to give a detailed presentation on a recent wedding before a panel of judges, and show evidence of sustained excellence in the field.