REHEARSAL DINNER TIPS

We know that the rehearsal dinner is a happy, relaxing time for family and friends. It is designed to get people together and set the tone for the ceremony and celebration to come. Traditionally the groom's family hosts the party. Invited are immediate families, the officiating clergy and spouse, the complete wedding party and their spouses or dates. It is nice to include out-of-town guests as well. It is traditionally held immediately following the wedding rehearsal the night before the ceremony. But local customs and travel arrangements may make that impossible.

Plan to use place cards to help people break the ice and insure that they meet each other. The bridal couple and their immediate families usually sit at the head table but more and more couples are choosing to mingle with their guests. As the host, the groom's father makes the traditional toast to the couple and he may take this time to introduce everyone if there is a chance that some guests are unfamiliar with all of those in attendance. This party is a perfect time to present gifts to the attendants, especially if the gift is to be worn at the wedding. Whether it is served or buffet-style, elaborate or simple, the rehearsal dinner is a good time to visit with relatives and to make new friends as well.